Attending a wedding can be a joyful yet stressful event. As a guest, you want to ensure you are being respectful and appropriate throughout the celebrations. Follow these dos and don’ts to avoid any wedding faux pas.
RSVP Promptly
As soon as you receive the invitation, respond right away. The couple needs final headcounts for catering and seating arrangements. If you cannot attend, let them know immediately. If you lose the RSVP card, call or email the bride and groom or whomever is hosting the event. Be sure to meet the RSVP deadline, as late responses can cause issues with planning.
Dress Appropriately
The invitation will often indicate the level of formality – black tie, formal, semi-formal or casual. Avoid wearing white, which is reserved for the bride. Ladies should avoid wearing anything too revealing as well. If you are uncertain what to wear, check with the bride and groom ahead of time. It is better to be overdressed than underdressed. Stick to the specified dress code, so you don’t attract unwanted attention.
Silence Phones and Devices
Before the ceremony, turn off your phone and any other electronic devices. You want to avoid disruptions during meaningful moments. The sound of a ringing phone can ruin the ambience.
No Social Media
Refrain from posting on social media before the couple. Allow them to be the first to post wedding photos and announcements. This includes uploading any images you take during the ceremony or reception.
Mind Your Manners
Practice proper etiquette at the reception. Say congratulations to the bride and groom. Mingle with other guests at your table. Send back incorrectly ordered meals. Use the correct utensils starting with those furthest from the plate. Napkin goes in lap. Remember your please and thank yous.
Don’t Criticise
If something is not to your taste, keep it to yourself – the venue, the food, the music. This day is about the couple. Complaining serves no purpose except to ruin their joy.
Be Punctual
Arrive at the specified time, not too early or late. The wedding schedule is carefully planned. If you arrive late, you may disrupt the procession or ceremony. Rush to your seat without drawing attention. Try to arrive 10-15 minutes early so you can be seated on time.
Watch the Booze
Open bars can sometimes lead to overindulgence. Know your limits and drink in moderation. Getting drunk and acting inappropriately is unacceptable. You want to be present not impaired. Pace yourself and alternate alcoholic drinks with water to avoid getting too intoxicated.
Don’t Upstage the Couple
As a guest, you are not the star. Avoid wearing anything too attention-grabbing. The bride especially should stand out. Don’t make announcements or speeches unless requested. This is the couple’s day.
Give a Heartfelt Gift
The ideal gift is on the registry to ensure the couple receives something they want and can use. Stick to your budget. Cash or gift cards are always welcome. If they request no gifts, small personalised wedding presents or a charitable donation in their honour works. Check out these personalised wedding gifts UK for inspiration.
Follow the rules and you can fully enjoy the celebration! Remember to focus on the couple and make this day as stress-free for them as possible. With a little etiquette and common sense, you will have fun and make lasting memories.
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